keepingintouch

Saturday, January 24, 2009

Had been busy ....
stealing some time to blog something
that had been in my mind for several months.........

Where and how to begin....

Love.....is a mystery so many emotions involved.

Some need not hunt or experience several times ( referring to girl/boy).

Saw a chinese series.....pain/joy kind of love.......abt forgiving too.

A boy and girl falling in love.....very much in love despite differences.

Some problem occurred and created misunderstanding......

relationship turned sour .....boy and girl had their own pride.....

relationship broken ......separated.

Boy saw girl so upset .....girl mentioned a sentence that made the guy,

feels he shld distant himself so as not to hurt the girl.....still very much in love

with her. ( lesson - watch what we say....)

Girl was very hurt......cannot forgive this guy.....had a very good male friend

very understanding, patience, all the time there for her....better than her ex.

This friend very good, not pushy at all.....girl didn't know he was in love with her.

A friend indeed always at her side brought her laughter and joy.

Ex happy to see her happy again ....slowly after a long time ....felt it's ok to

talk and appear to her. All this while he fears if she sees him she will be in

pain so distant himself.

Ex boyfriend happy to be friends......one day girl found out the truth.....wanted to

forgive him and realized how much she still loves him.....decided to e mail him and

tell him she has forgiven him.......sadly he didn't get to know that she has

forgiven him and that she loves him a lot for he met with and accident trying to

help her solve her case ( both are lawyers).

several Lesson learnt is to be forgiving and pride can create problems.

Don't wait too long to forgive and to find out true and not assume.....

However.......God is kind ......although this guy left her .....but God already has

send her another person who is as loving.......although initially she finds it hard

to accept him after the death of her ex......but time heals and she was able to

find true love once again.

As for her ex .....i'm sure he's happy she has forgiven her and glad to know she

did loved him and most important she's able to be happy even after his death.

we should learn and follow God's way......is not God who caused the 1st relationship

to turn sour......is man error.......but God comes along to heal the broken in

His ways .

whisperings of nature